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The Limits of “Doing It All Yourself”
We’ve all heard the saying, “If you want something done right, do it yourself,” and the modern twist, “I am enough.” But if you’ve ever worked with someone who insists on having things their way, believing they alone are all their team needs, you know it rarely works. Insisting on doing everything ourselves often leads to micromanaging others, burnout, and ultimately putting personal desires above team goals.
Recognizing We Can’t Do It All
Believing we’re enough doesn’t mean we don’t have skills or bring unique value. Rather, it reminds us that true success requires recognizing our limitations and seeking support. The most effective leaders and organizations I’ve worked with embraced collaboration, listening to team input, and holding everyone accountable to shared standards. And the best teams I’ve coached were built on individuals—players, coaches, and families—who willingly sacrificed for the greater good.
The Value of Community and Connection
As humans, we’re wired for connection. We need communities to provide support, cover our blind spots, and encourage our growth. Understanding that we need others allows us to invite people in, let go of rigid control, and take greater responsibility. This sense of belonging drives us to give our best, not because we must, but because we don’t want to let others down.
Building a Strong Foundation Through Collaboration
When we willingly ask for help, we strengthen our teams, build resilient communities, and lay foundations strong enough to withstand any challenge. If you want to make an impact and enjoy life’s fullest experiences, stop trying to do it all alone. Recognize that, while you bring value, true success comes when we support each other and work together toward shared goals.